Milk & Oreos by Pastor Matt

Song: Joy

Artist: Rend Collective


Yesterday, Pastor Andy invited us into the relationship between joy and generosity – specifically, that God loves a cheerful giver (2 Cor 9:7). Joy and generosity.

Just a page or two before this encouragement to the Corinthian church to give cheerfully, we read this description of churches in a neighboring region:

Now I want you to know, dear brothers and sisters, what God in his kindness has done through the churches in Macedonia. 2 They are being tested by many troubles, and they are very poor. But they are also filled with abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity. For I can testify that they gave not only what they could afford, but far more. And they did it of their own free will. 4 They begged us again and again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the believers in Jerusalem.5 They even did more than we had hoped, for their first action was to give themselves to the Lord and to us, just as God wanted them to do.

2 Corinthians 8:1-5

There they are again. Joy and generosity. Just hanging out together. A bit like milk & Oreos. Or peanut butter & jelly. Or bacon & eggs. Or chips & salsa. Or…you get the idea.

Joy & generosity. They just go together.

I think I’ve always sort of heard “God loves a cheerful giver” as a command. I’m called to give, to be kind, to be generous. And I’d better do it with a smile on my face – because God likes that. Joy is something I add to my generosity, because I’m supposed to. And, sure, at times, there’s an element of that. We call it obedience.

But this passage paints a slightly different picture. For these believers, joy is not something they tack on to their generosity. Joy is what leads to their generosity (v 2).

And it all starts with God’s kindness (v 1).

It’s interesting. Paul’s careful to point out that these Christians don’t have a whole lot going for them: many troubles, and very poor (v 2). But God’s kindness cuts through all of that. God’s kindness fills these Christians in Macedonia with joy. And that joy finds its natural expression in generosity.

Kindness, joy, & generosity.

It’s March Kindness at Cross Points. And we’re looking for opportunities to be generous – to walk in obedience to the command to be kind to one another.

But today, can I invite you to do something else as well? Pause from the responsibilities of your day and remember God’s kindness. Think about what God has done for you in Jesus, let it fill your heart fill with joy, and watch what happens when it overflows. And maybe enjoy some milk & oreos while you’re at it.

Rock Chalk Joyhawk!

March Madness

This is one of my favorite times of the year. It’s college basketball playoff time! If you are a K State or Tiger fan, you may hate this time of year. Sorry. As a Jayhawk fan, I can’t get enough.

Last night, I listened to a little bit of the coverage of KU being chosen as a #1 seed in the national tournament. Bill Self, KU’s coach, said this about the Jayhawk team,

“Right now they’re playing joyful. I have to remind them of that some times…play joyful.”

That’s a powerful statement. Play joyful.

Joyfully Generous.

Pastor David yesterday shared the second message in our March Kindness series. He gave this definition of kindness –

the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate in an effort to meet the need of others.

Let me key in on that word “generous”


 

6Remember this—a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. But the one who plants generously will get a generous crop. 7You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.”

8And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. 9As the Scriptures say,
“They share freely and give generously to the poor.
Their good deeds will be remembered forever.”

10For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity in you.

11Yes, you will be enriched in every way so that you can always be generous. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will thank God. 12So two good things will result from this ministry of giving—the needs of the believers in Jerusalem will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanks to God. -2 Corinthians 9:6-12

 


 

One of the things God asks us to do…no be, is generous. The ESV translates verse 7 as “for God loves a cheerful giver.” Which brings me back to March Madness and the KU Jayhawks.

The things we do in life should be full of joy – especially the things God asks us to do. It’s why God loves a cheerful giver. It’s why Bill Self loves a team playing joyful basketball.

This week your challenge is to give something away. Some of you may have an item, a person or a cause in mind. If not, let me offer a suggestion.

I have a friend who is in need. He’s not a believer, but he’s asking questions. His son is in the midst of an illness that doctors have no answers for. No answers in the sense they don’t really know what the problem is.

Because of this, they are traveling to a special hospital to meet with special doctors. As you can imagine, this won’t be cheap, so they are raising funds. My friend is a fine art photographer, so he’s selling one of his prints toward this cause.

If you can, be generous. It’s not inexpensive ($99 + S/H), but it’s an investment. It’s generosity. I just purchased my print. I want to support him and his family. I want to be kind.

Find theimagejournal.com HERE.

I would love for you to put on kindness too. It doesn’t have to be with Ryan. It could be someone else – something else. Not matter what it is…be joyfully generous.

Kindness in Action – By Pastor Chris Horsley

In thinking about kindness, I am drawn to the story of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37.

We are all pretty familiar with the story.  A man goes down from Jerusalem to Jericho and is robbed, beaten, and left half dead.

As luck would have it a priest passes by!  What a blessing!  A man of God! He see him… and passes by on the other side.  The same thing happens when the Levite passes.

These are two men who Spurgeon states were “bound by their profession” to help this man. They look at the situation, and go on their merry way.

Nothing changes until the Samaritan shows up.

The Samaritan gives instantly and without delay.  There doesn’t seem to be any hesitation on the part of the Good Samaritan, even though he is a helping a Jewish man, and Jews and Samaritans DID NOT like each other.

This is a picture of kindness in action.

The Good Samaritan gives of his time, his energy, and his money.

Some traits of kindness:

Kindness is full of self-denial.

Kindness isn’t worried about cost.  The Good Samaritan wasn’t going to be repaid by this man.  In fact, he probably never would see him again!

Kindness isn’t worried about how much work it will take.  He had to take the time and energy to get him from where he was to the inn.

Kindness isn’t worried about who it helps.  As I stated before, the Jews and Samaritans DID NOT like each other. This goes along with what Pastor Andy wrote in his devo yesterday about how we are to show kindness to those who don’t “deserve” it.

Taking care of this man delayed the Good Samaritan from where he was going.  But he still did what was right.  He showed kindness and compassion to this man who was not able to help himself.

The priest and the Levite were so worried about themselves that they were unable to see the person who needed help right in front of them.  They missed the forest for the trees.

Let this be a call that as followers of Christ, we are to not only be aware of our surroundings, but also willing to do something about it, even if it may cost us what we deem as precious to us.

The challenge is what Jesus says in Luke 10:37 from the Amplified:

“Go and constantly do the same.”

We should show kindness and mercy when we have the opportunity.

It goes along with the tagline for this month: Kindness: It’s what we do.

Have a great weekend and continue looking for ways to be kind to others, through speech or deed.

Everybody does that! by Pastor Andy

are you different in your kindness?Author and speaker, Susan Smith Jones, shares this story traveling through an airport.

I was leaving Portland, Oregon, to fly to Los Angeles. Because of stormy weather, most flights were delayed, and some were canceled. The airport was crowded with unhappy travelers, so I was delighted that for some reason my flight was scheduled to leave on time. As they announced the final boarding, I noticed a harried man running up to the counter with his briefcase in one hand and his ticket in the other. The ticket agent said that unfortunately his reservation had been cleared and his seat given away. She told him politely and kindly that she would do everything she could to get him a seat on a later flight. Her response was clearly not acceptable to him as reflected by his inappropriate behavior.

He went ballistic. Everyone in the surrounding terminalarea could hear the din of his frustration. He had an important meeting in Los Angeles, and he had to get there. I couldn’t help but feel for him, because I’ve been in similar situations where I couldn’t afford to miss a flight, but everybody felt sorry for the ticket agent, especially when in his tirade he yelled out that he wanted to see a supervisor.

All of a sudden, a woman who appeared to be in her seventies walked up to this man and said that she wasn’t in a hurry and would be happy to give him her seat. As you can imagine, the man stopped right in his tracks. It almost looked as if he was about to cry. He apologized to her, to the ticket agent, and to everyone around for his behavior and thanked the woman for being an angel in his life. He boarded the flight smiling, relieved, and much wiser! What a blessing for the lovely woman, too. The man never knew it, of course, but the airline got her on another flight just three hours later and also gave her a free, first-class, round-trip ticket to any destination served by the company. So she was truly twice blessed.

It reminds me of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount –

You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.   -Matthew 5:43-48 NLT

Anyone can be kind to a helpless child in need. Anyone can share with a not-so-rough looking single mother. Anyone can drop a bit of change in the bell-ringers bucket on the corner. Even a total sinner will do that!

How are you treating the gossiping co-worker next to you at lunch? How are you responding to the foul-mouthed foreman on the job site? How are you acting at the counter of the service provider in no way lived up to their responsibilities?

These are opportunities to truly shine the love of Jesus.

As you accept the challenges this month of March Kindness, I challenge you to not just show kindness to those who “deserve” it. Anyone can do that.

Haggis, Honey, & Health by Pastor Matt Shirley

Song: Loyal

Artist: Lauren Daigle


Haggis

There are two culinary experiences which stand out from the year our family recently spent in Edinburgh, Scotland.

The first is a traditional Scottish meal, the Burns Supper.  It’s an annual celebration held in honor of Scotland’s national poet, Robert Burns. I’ll never forget watching a chef demonstrate this traditional meal – of which the haggis is the main event – to a room full of children. He carefully (and graphically!) displayed each of the main ingredients of the haggis: the heart, liver, and lungs of a sheep encased in the sheep’s stomach. (Your mouth is watering at the thought!). His demonstration had its desired effect – those kids were mortified!

A Wikipedia search leads you to this resounding endorsement of the dish: “Although its description is not immediately appealing, haggis has an excellent nutty texture and delicious savoury flavour.”

Not immediately appealing. You think?!

On one occasion, we tried making it at home with some friends visiting from the States. This, however, was a mistake. We should have left the preparation to the locals, and focused solely on the consumption!


Honey

But, thankfully, we had another food experience that left a more favorable impression on us: set honey.

I’ll leave you to investigate the process, but the result was this textured, yet creamy honey that was perfect for spreading. It was amazing. In fact, I started nearly every day of my year in Edinburgh with a warm scone covered generously with this delicious sweetness. (My mouth is watering at the thought!)


Health

So what’s with all this chat about haggis and honey? I’m glad you asked. I’ve been thinking about this month’s March Kindness challenge at Cross Points. We’re considering ways to express God’s kindness to others.

And I thought of haggis. And honey. And Proverbs 16:24.

Kind words are like honey—sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

It’s amazing to me that, through something as simple as the words that I speak, I have the ability to express the kindness of God. And the kindness of God is sweetness and health – abundant life.

I’d like to invite you to do two things today. One, take a moment to recall a time when a kind word brought life to you. And two, be intentional with your words. Speak kind words to someone today. Maybe a parent or child. Maybe a spouse or co-worker. Maybe a neighbor or stranger. Speak a kind word, and be an expression of God’s kindness.

Haggis or honey. You pick.