Are you rich? by Pastor Andy

Rags to Riches to Rags

Really, it’s a cliche story.

A man starts at the bottom, works his way up, and strikes it rich. Maybe it’s oil or the lottery or a business that takes off. No matter the detail, money pours in…and so do the friends.

The party begins! Money flows and everything is great. People love this guy…he is so much fun! Until the money stops, and the fun is over. With the money, so go the people.

The man is on his own, by himself, at the bottom. Even his dog leaves him. No one likes a poor, loser!


The poor is disliked even by his neighbor, but the rich has many friends.  -Proverbs 14:20


We all want friends. No one wants to be the poor, loser, who doesn’t even have a dog. So the question we should ask is, what does it take to be rich?

Are you rich?

I’m not talking about monetary wealth. There is more than one way to skin a cat. I mean are you rich in personality, depth of soul, and connection with God. This is true wealth. When we have this, we’ll have many friends, and they can’t be easily taken away!

Here’s a quick list of 10 things you can do to be rich in personality, depth and connection with God.

  1. Read the Bible daily.
  2. Pray Scripture.
  3. Read 1 book a month (non-fiction).
  4. Read 1 book a month (fiction).
  5. Try a new meal or drink.
  6. Attend a GROW group.
  7. Learn a new hobby.
  8. Eat lunch with a co-worker you don’t normally talk with.
  9. Watch an art film.
  10. Attend a spiritual conference, seminar or retreat this year.
  11. BONUS – Attend a live sporting event.
  12. BONUS – Visit a local civic counsel meeting.

Do something different! Grow in your walk with God and in yourself. You’ll become rich, and you won’t lack for friends (who can never be taken away).

What one thing can you begin today to be rich in personality, depth or connection with God?

I’m kind of a big deal. – Pastor Andy Bondurant

I’m very important

In the movie Anchorman, Will Ferrell’s character Ron Burgundy humbly says,

I don’t know how to put this, but I’m kind of a big deal.

Later he proclaims,

I’m very important. I have many leather bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany.

Why are you reading Anchorman quotes this morning? It’s not because of Will Ferrell or Ron Burgandy, but Jesus really was a big deal. He was very important. Not just Jesus, but his friends, the disciples too.

In Mark 6, Jesus sent the disciples out to minister. He gives very specific instructions (go in pairs, take no money or provision, stay anywhere people accept the truth – verses 7-11). The disciples are obedient, and they have incredible success – demons are cast out and people are healed (verses 12-13).

This makes Jesus and his friends very important, and the result is a crush of people.

Mark 6:30-33:

30 The apostles returned to Jesus and told him all that they had done and taught. 31And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat. 32And they went away in the boat to a desolate place by themselves. 33Now many saw them going and recognized them, and they ran there on foot from all the towns and got there ahead of them.

As I read this passage the other day, I saw it in a new light. If you read on, you’ll find this is when Jesus feeds the 5,000 followed up by walking on water. Those acts overshadow what Jesus does to be a friend in verses 30-31. Read them again.

Friendship Do’s

Monday, Pastor David shared 2 friendship don’ts –

  1. Don’t eat alone.
  2. Don’t run alone.

Today, let me share with you 2 friendship do’s.

1. Be available.

I can imagine the scene when as the disciples returned to Jesus. There were of course some highs (casting out demons and healing the sick), but I’m guessing there were some lows – kicked out of communities, cursed, etc. I also imagine there were some funny moments.

Jesus wanted to hear their stories. He wasn’t above it. He was available, and He cared.

Are you available for your friends? Available to share their ups, downs and funny moments?

2. Be honest.

Through the disciples sharing, Jesus saw something. He saw they were tired. He realized they needed a break.

So, Jesus is honest with them. He tells them to get in a boat, push away, and go somewhere no one else is.

It didn’t work. The people followed them, and they ministered anyway, but Jesus tried. He tried to give them a break, even when it was probably to his disadvantage – spreading His good news.

Are you honest with you friends, even when it may be to your own disadvantage?

This past week, I spent some time with friends old and new in the photography industry. In both group and personal settings, I had an opportunity to practice these both. I was available and honest, and it opened doors. People are hungry for someone to be available and honest with them. What better place to start than with our friends?

As you evaluate your friendships this week, ask yourself how you can be available and honest with these people.

Amazing Love by Pastor David Jones

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34 So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.35 Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.” John 13:34-35 NLT

Jesus gives a new command. Love each other. It’s an interesting command as it’s not really a new command. In Leviticus we are reminded:

18 “Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against a fellow Israelite, but love your neighbor as yourself. I am the Lord. Leviticus 19:18 NLT

Jesus was surely aware of this direct command from the Pentateuch. The idea of loving your neighbor was radical in the time of Moses.  It was something the religious leaders of the day had a hard time following.  In fact it was hard for anyone to follow.  But Jesus does not point us to the Old Covenant, he points us to an even more radical command.

Love each other, just as I have loved you.

Herein lies the radical command.  It’s one thing to love your neighbor as yourself. It’s quite another to love like Jesus loved.  If we uncover this truth we’ll be amazed at the kind of love Jesus demonstrated on Earth.  Jesus touched the lepers, played with children, hung out with sinners, associated with the rich, poor and despised, he lived His life on earth as an offering.  He poured out His life for those he came to save.

Jesus shocked his followers with love.  Jesus wrapped himself in a towel, got on his knees and began to scrape the mud off the feet of his disciples.  Then he washed their feet.  It was a moment of amazing love.  After finishing with this powerful demonstration of humble love Jesus looks as his friends and says, “Love each other, just as I have loved you.” Surely, His radical command to love blew their minds!

Yet, this is the kind of love Jesus calls us to embrace.  We are not called to simply receive love we are called to dispense love.  It’s a love that is hard to give and live.  The new command of Jesus isn’t just how we would want to be treated.  Most of us would not expect someone to go out of their way and extravagantly dispense love toward us.  But Jesus says go beyond your pre-defined expectations and do the unthinkable–love willingly, love radically, love unexpectedly.

Let’s follow Jesus!  I challenge you.  Find someone today and do the unexpected. Pour out extravagant love in a unexpected moment. You’ll prove to the world that you are a disciple of Jesus.

Secrets to Lasting Love by Pastor David

The official world record for the longest marriage for a living couple belongs to Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher, who were married for a total of 86 years and 290 days. In 2011, Herbert passed away at 105, and a few years later in 2013, Zelmyra followed at 105 years old as well.  

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I Corinthians 13:4-8 MSG

Love never gives up.

Love cares more for others than for self.

Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.

Love doesn’t strut,

Doesn’t have a swelled head,

Doesn’t force itself on others,

Isn’t always “me first,”

Doesn’t fly off the handle,

Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,

Doesn’t revel when others grovel,

Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,

Puts up with anything,

Trusts God always,

Always looks for the best,

Never looks back,

But keeps going to the end.

8-10 Love never dies.

Before their death, the Fishers were interviewed about their secrets to long lasting love…and their answers were astoundingly simple. Marry your best friend, be committed, work hard and remember marriage is not a contest, never keep score, God put you on the same team to win!  Pretty good advice from a couple that remained happily married for over 86 years!

Here are three secrets to a lasting marriage:

 

#1 Love is not a fickle feeling

 

Once you’ve decided to go all in.  Once you’ve said, “I DO” you move from feelings to commitment.  The feelings may or may not remain but your decision to stick with your spouse is not based on emotion, it’s based on a commitment you made to your spouse and the Lord.

One pastor put it this way, “Love, by its very nature, isn’t a fairy tale feeling, but a commitment. Love isn’t a story with a happy ending; love is a story with no ending.”

“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.” 1 Corinthians 13:7 NLT

#2 Never bring up mistakes of the past.

  • If they’re breathing, your mate will eventually offend you. Learn to forgive.
  • Stop criticizing others or it will come back on you. If you forgive others, you will be forgiven.

“Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. – (Luke 6:37 NLT).

#3  Sex should be a Priority:

Every Time we engage in sex we are renewing our covenant to each other.

Don’t allow your busy schedule, your kids, or your age keep you from the marriage bed!  It is important to come together and express your love in a physical way to your spouse.  Every time you engage in sex you communicate once more to your spouse that you are committed.  Each time you come together you physically demonstrate that you are choosing them.  

“The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.” 1 Corinthians 7:3-4 NLT

 

 

Daily Devotions

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Enhance your day with verses from the Bible, along with reflections from Pastor David Jones, Pastor Andy Bondurant, Pastor Matt Shirley, and Pastor Chris Horsley. We pray that you will find the strength, peace, and comfort you need to strengthen your walk with Christ.

DEVOTIONAL ARCHIVES

July 29, 2016 – Christ-Centered Time Management

July 28, 2016 – God’s Purpose or Mine?

July 27, 2016 – Use your time wisely

July 26, 2016 – Time Management God’s Way: What’s on Your To-Don’t List?

July 25, 2016 – A daily time with the Lord


July 22, 2016 – Exceedingly Abundantly

July 21, 2016 – Impossibilities

July 20, 2016 – The Discipline of Difficulty

July 19, 2016 – Be Aware of the Least Likely Temptation

July 18, 2016 -Temptation


July 15, 2016 – Spiritual Honor and Duty

July 14, 2016 – Justice

July 13, 2016 – The importance of vision

July 12, 2016 – What is the condition of your heart?

July 11, 2016 -The Spiritually Self-Seeking Church


July 7, 2016 -Keep Recognizing Jesus

July 6, 2016 -One of God’s Great “Don’ts”

July 5, 2016 -The Good or The Best 

July 4, 2016 -God’s Assurance 


July 1, 2016 – Just Keep Singing, Just Keep Singing

June 30, 2016 -From Singing to Sunshine

June 29, 2016 – “Open Windows”

June 28, 2016 -“For Sing I Must!” 

June 27, 2016 – Wake Up!


June 24, 2016 – Pray!

June 23, 2016 – Wait by F.B. Meyer

June 22, 2016 – Liked by God

June 21, 2016 – Trust What You’ve Received

June 20, 2016 – Home Blessings – Charles Spurgeon


June 17, 2016 – The Church of Sardis

June 16, 2016 – The Church of Thyatira

June 15, 2016 – The Church at Pergamum

June 14, 2016 – The Church of Smyrna

June 13, 2016 – The Church of Ephesus


June 10 , 2016 – I Know This About You

June 9, 2016 – Shipwrecked Souls and Thirsty Prayers

June 8, 2017 – Thirsty

June 7, 2016 – Wanna be a Success?

June 6, 2016 – The Question of and Awakened Soul 


June 3, 2016 – Let’s Do This! 

June 2, 2016 – Justice! 

June 1, 2016 – Good Religion? 

May 31, 2016 – Messy Involvement 

May 30, 2016 – The Least


May 27, 2016 – Keeping the Main Thing the Main Thing 

May 26, 2016 – Messy

May 25, 2016 – Kingdoms at War

May 24, 2016 – Question Behind the Question

May 23, 2016 – Self Promotion or Servanthood


May 20, 2016 – We joined a zoo

May 19, 2016 -Hazardous Work!! 

May 18, 2016 – Shake It Off

May 17, 2016 – Full of Gladness and Glad Some More

May 16, 2016 – Fear, Memory & the Future


May 13, 2016 – A New Commandment 

May 12, 2016 – Love One Another

May 11, 2016 – Road Rage Love

May 10. 2016 – Opposite of Love?

May 9, 2016 -Love is a Verb 


May 6, 2016 – Definitely, Maybe 

May 5, 2016 – Imitate

May 4, 2016 – Disciples & Tomatoes

May 3, 2016 – Abide in Freedom

May 2, 2016 – Are you a follower or a disciple? 


April 29, 2016 – Wake Up!

April 28, 2016 – Windows & Mirrors

April 27, 2016 – Be Reconciled 

April 26, 2016 – 50 Pithy Quotes

April 25, 2016 – Put it down


April 22, 2016 – Honor, Trust, & Barn Doors

April 21, 2016 – Beyond Challenging? 

April 20, 2016 – Head, Shoulders, Knees, & Toes…and Hearts

April 19, 2016 – Plant * Harvest * Repeat 

April 18, 2016 -The Joy of Giving


April 15, 2016 – Don’t Worry…EAT!

April 14, 2016 – Christian Chat

April 13, 2016 – Keep on EATING! 

April 12, 2016 – Come EAT with Us!

April 11, 2016 – Eat with us every day this week!


April 8, 2016 – Oh Lord, It’s Hard to be Humble

April 7, 2016 – Flee. Pursue.

April 6, 2016 -Be’umble, find ‘ope 

April 5, 2016 – 35 Years Ago! 

April 4, 2016 – Repentance and Humility go hand in hand 


April 1, 2016 – Peter’s Other Confession

March 30, 2016- Sharing Christ

March 29, 2016 – On the Road and In the Dark

March 29, 2016 – Oh no…FOMO!

March 28, 2016 – Celebration! 


March 25, 2016 -The Blood of Christ

March 24, 2016 – The Garden of Gethsemane

March 23, 2016 – A Beautiful Jar and a Few Silver Coins

March 22, 2016 – Grain, Cross, and Glory

March 21, 2016 – Passion Week 


March 18, 2016 – Manna & Quail & Generosity

March 17, 2016 – The First Progressive Dinner

March 16, 2016 – Greedy to Generous in 30 days! 

March 15, 2016 -Milk & Oreos

March 14, 2016 – Rock Chalk Joyhawk!


March 11, 2016 – Kindness in Action

March 10, 2016 – Everybody does that!

March 9, 2016 – Haggis, Honey, & Health

March 8, 2016 – Remember His Kindness 

March 7, 2016 – Clothe Yourself with Kindness


March 4, 2016 – Honor Who? Them!? Why? 

March 3, 2016 – What exactly is a whitewashed wall? 

March 2, 2016 – Honoring Others

March 1, 2016 – Parents & Children. Honor & Respect

February 29, 2016 – Honor The Lord 


February 26, 2016 – Are you rich?

February 25, 2016 -The Company We Keep 

February 24, 2016 – I’m kind of a big deal

February 23, 2016 – Selfishness

February 22, 2016 – Relationship Don’ts


February 19, 2016 – Love & Everything Else

February 18, 2016 – Live Gladly

February 17, 2016 -The Furious Love of God

February 16, 2016 – Amazing Love

February 15, 2016 – Secret To a Long Lasting Marriage


February 11, 2016 – Known

February 10, 2016 – Depth Perception

February 9, 2016 – What We Think of God

February 8, 2016 – Good Father


February 3, 2016 – Spare the Rod…

February 2, 2016 – Child-like Anticipation

February 1, 2016 – Grow Young


January 29, 2016 – Under Pressure 

January 28, 2016 – Conviction & Transformation

January 27, 2016 – Making Room

January 26, 2016 – Growing Up Together

January 25, 2016 – May Your Faith Grow Up


January 22, 2016 – Two Better Than One

January 21, 2016 – Candy Wrappers, Unicorns, and Community

January 20, 2016 – The belonging you seek

January 18, 2016 – Better Together


January 15, 2016 – Be Meek. . . Grow Strong

January 14, 2016 – Going Bold Grows You Stronger

January 13, 2016 – On praying BOLD

January 12, 2016 – Go Long

January 8, 2016 – Wanna take a Walk?