Kindness in Action – By Pastor Chris Horsley

In thinking about kindness, I am drawn to the story of the Good Samaritan in Luke 10:25-37.

We are all pretty familiar with the story.  A man goes down from Jerusalem to Jericho and is robbed, beaten, and left half dead.

As luck would have it a priest passes by!  What a blessing!  A man of God! He see him… and passes by on the other side.  The same thing happens when the Levite passes.

These are two men who Spurgeon states were “bound by their profession” to help this man. They look at the situation, and go on their merry way.

Nothing changes until the Samaritan shows up.

The Samaritan gives instantly and without delay.  There doesn’t seem to be any hesitation on the part of the Good Samaritan, even though he is a helping a Jewish man, and Jews and Samaritans DID NOT like each other.

This is a picture of kindness in action.

The Good Samaritan gives of his time, his energy, and his money.

Some traits of kindness:

Kindness is full of self-denial.

Kindness isn’t worried about cost.  The Good Samaritan wasn’t going to be repaid by this man.  In fact, he probably never would see him again!

Kindness isn’t worried about how much work it will take.  He had to take the time and energy to get him from where he was to the inn.

Kindness isn’t worried about who it helps.  As I stated before, the Jews and Samaritans DID NOT like each other. This goes along with what Pastor Andy wrote in his devo yesterday about how we are to show kindness to those who don’t “deserve” it.

Taking care of this man delayed the Good Samaritan from where he was going.  But he still did what was right.  He showed kindness and compassion to this man who was not able to help himself.

The priest and the Levite were so worried about themselves that they were unable to see the person who needed help right in front of them.  They missed the forest for the trees.

Let this be a call that as followers of Christ, we are to not only be aware of our surroundings, but also willing to do something about it, even if it may cost us what we deem as precious to us.

The challenge is what Jesus says in Luke 10:37 from the Amplified:

“Go and constantly do the same.”

We should show kindness and mercy when we have the opportunity.

It goes along with the tagline for this month: Kindness: It’s what we do.

Have a great weekend and continue looking for ways to be kind to others, through speech or deed.

Everybody does that! by Pastor Andy

are you different in your kindness?Author and speaker, Susan Smith Jones, shares this story traveling through an airport.

I was leaving Portland, Oregon, to fly to Los Angeles. Because of stormy weather, most flights were delayed, and some were canceled. The airport was crowded with unhappy travelers, so I was delighted that for some reason my flight was scheduled to leave on time. As they announced the final boarding, I noticed a harried man running up to the counter with his briefcase in one hand and his ticket in the other. The ticket agent said that unfortunately his reservation had been cleared and his seat given away. She told him politely and kindly that she would do everything she could to get him a seat on a later flight. Her response was clearly not acceptable to him as reflected by his inappropriate behavior.

He went ballistic. Everyone in the surrounding terminalarea could hear the din of his frustration. He had an important meeting in Los Angeles, and he had to get there. I couldn’t help but feel for him, because I’ve been in similar situations where I couldn’t afford to miss a flight, but everybody felt sorry for the ticket agent, especially when in his tirade he yelled out that he wanted to see a supervisor.

All of a sudden, a woman who appeared to be in her seventies walked up to this man and said that she wasn’t in a hurry and would be happy to give him her seat. As you can imagine, the man stopped right in his tracks. It almost looked as if he was about to cry. He apologized to her, to the ticket agent, and to everyone around for his behavior and thanked the woman for being an angel in his life. He boarded the flight smiling, relieved, and much wiser! What a blessing for the lovely woman, too. The man never knew it, of course, but the airline got her on another flight just three hours later and also gave her a free, first-class, round-trip ticket to any destination served by the company. So she was truly twice blessed.

It reminds me of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount –

You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. But you are to be perfect, even as your Father in heaven is perfect.   -Matthew 5:43-48 NLT

Anyone can be kind to a helpless child in need. Anyone can share with a not-so-rough looking single mother. Anyone can drop a bit of change in the bell-ringers bucket on the corner. Even a total sinner will do that!

How are you treating the gossiping co-worker next to you at lunch? How are you responding to the foul-mouthed foreman on the job site? How are you acting at the counter of the service provider in no way lived up to their responsibilities?

These are opportunities to truly shine the love of Jesus.

As you accept the challenges this month of March Kindness, I challenge you to not just show kindness to those who “deserve” it. Anyone can do that.

Haggis, Honey, & Health by Pastor Matt Shirley

Song: Loyal

Artist: Lauren Daigle


Haggis

There are two culinary experiences which stand out from the year our family recently spent in Edinburgh, Scotland.

The first is a traditional Scottish meal, the Burns Supper.  It’s an annual celebration held in honor of Scotland’s national poet, Robert Burns. I’ll never forget watching a chef demonstrate this traditional meal – of which the haggis is the main event – to a room full of children. He carefully (and graphically!) displayed each of the main ingredients of the haggis: the heart, liver, and lungs of a sheep encased in the sheep’s stomach. (Your mouth is watering at the thought!). His demonstration had its desired effect – those kids were mortified!

A Wikipedia search leads you to this resounding endorsement of the dish: “Although its description is not immediately appealing, haggis has an excellent nutty texture and delicious savoury flavour.”

Not immediately appealing. You think?!

On one occasion, we tried making it at home with some friends visiting from the States. This, however, was a mistake. We should have left the preparation to the locals, and focused solely on the consumption!


Honey

But, thankfully, we had another food experience that left a more favorable impression on us: set honey.

I’ll leave you to investigate the process, but the result was this textured, yet creamy honey that was perfect for spreading. It was amazing. In fact, I started nearly every day of my year in Edinburgh with a warm scone covered generously with this delicious sweetness. (My mouth is watering at the thought!)


Health

So what’s with all this chat about haggis and honey? I’m glad you asked. I’ve been thinking about this month’s March Kindness challenge at Cross Points. We’re considering ways to express God’s kindness to others.

And I thought of haggis. And honey. And Proverbs 16:24.

Kind words are like honey—sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.

It’s amazing to me that, through something as simple as the words that I speak, I have the ability to express the kindness of God. And the kindness of God is sweetness and health – abundant life.

I’d like to invite you to do two things today. One, take a moment to recall a time when a kind word brought life to you. And two, be intentional with your words. Speak kind words to someone today. Maybe a parent or child. Maybe a spouse or co-worker. Maybe a neighbor or stranger. Speak a kind word, and be an expression of God’s kindness.

Haggis or honey. You pick.

Remember His Kindness by Pastor David Jones

They soon forgot his many acts of kindness to them. Instead, they rebelled against him at the Red Sea. – Psalm 106:7b NLT

 

Worship: Blessed Assurance

This past Sunday, Nancy Reagan passed away.  She was remembered for being an actress and the wife of President Ronald Reagan.  She accomplished much in her life but one of the things she will be remembered for is her fight against Alzheimers disease. President Reagan was diagnosed with the disease in 1994.  In his last letter to the country the President said, “I now begin the journey that will lead me into the sunset of my life.”

Nancy had this to say, “Alzheimer’s is a disease, like any other disease—cancer, heart disease, whatever,” she told an audience at the Hotel Pierre in New York in July 1995. But it is a “really very cruel disease, because for the caregiver,” she said, her eyes reddening and her voice breaking, “it’s a long goodbye.”

Alzheimer’s is a cruel disease.  I often think God has the same perspective when we forget His many kindnesses toward us. Much like an alzheimer’s patient we slowly forget God’s kindness in our life.  It’s all too easy to forget what He has done.  Forgetting God’s goodness is like a long goodbye to the grace of God.  The more we forget the more we distance ourselves from Him. This distancing leads to the point the Psalmist presses at that is when we forget, we tend to rebel.

They soon forgot his many acts of kindness to them. Instead, they rebelled against him at the Red Sea. – Psalm 106:7b NLT

When we forget what God has done we lose sight of his kindness and it tends to open the door to all kinds of ungrateful behavior. Our rebellion is often related to our forgetfulness.  We forget God’s kindness and instead launch in directions that cause destruction.  You can read the results of forgetting God’s kindness in the rest of Psalm 106.

The implication in this chapter is that if we remember His kindness it will help keep us from going astray.  I can testify that when I remember God’s kindness it does something in my Spirit. When I declare what God has done for me it brightens my mood.  Every time I call to mind what God has done I draw closer to Him.

Think about this: whenever we remember what God has done it is only good for God is always good.  In other words you can’t think about God and remember something bad or destructive or wrong.  Whenever we call to mind what God has done we can only say that it is Good.  Therefore call to mind what God has done, it will draw you close to him.

Every so often I take out my phone and pull up a picture of my boys when they were in the hospital.  My wife delivered twin boys at 26 weeks.  Ethan was 1lb 14 oz, Jack was 2lb 2 oz.  They were in danger from the very moment they were born.  After much prayer from family, friends and the church, my boys came home from the hospital after 3 months.  If you saw them today you would never know they were born premature.  It’s only by God’s kindness and grace they are alive today.  Every time I see these photos it reminds me of God’s kindness and grace.

Jack Jones

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ethan Jones

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Jones Boys

 

 

 

 

 

 

So today, I’d like you to remember God’s many kindnesses to you.  What has God done for you? Specifically what are His acts of Kindness toward you?  Write them out and then spend time in prayer thanking Him for His unbelievable kindness in your life!

Clothe Yourself with Kindness by Pastor David

Worship – Your Love is Holding Me


 

Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. – Colossians 3:12


 

At Cross Points, March is affectionately known as March Kindness.  Over the past several years we’ve taken the entire month of March and emphasized the importance of kindness. We don’t just talk about kindness we walk it out.  As Christians, it’s what we do.  As a church, every March, we challenge those in our church to engage in specific acts of kindness.  We challenge you to clothe yourself in kindness because God chose you to be his holy people to the world around you.

Over the past few years we’ve seen and heard some incredible stories of God working through us in simple acts of kindness.  One of the men in our church heard God speak to his heart to pay for the groceries for the lady in front of him.  He felt very hesitant to do this, but he wanted to be obedient.  When he reached over to pay for the groceries the lady started to cry.  He felt a bit confused and embarrassed but soon heard her story.  She told him that her house had literally burned to the grown to night before. She wasn’t quite sure what to do as she was still in a state of shock.  She said his kind gesture of paying for her groceries was exactly what she needed.  He looked over and the cashier started crying too!

You see, kindness is what we wear.  It’s the first thing people should see in the life of a believer. When you interact with your friends, neighbors, work associates, strangers, the first thing they should see in you is kindness.  It’s our kindness that will draw people closer to Jesus.  I love the old quote, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”  When we live out kindness we prove how much we care.

I was dining at a pizza restaurant with my wife when we encountered a couple with twin boys.  They were really young boys about 6 months old.  My wife and I stared at them and began to walk down memory lane as our twin boys were now in Elementary school.  We instantly decided we wanted to buy their meal.  We waved the waitress over and discretely paid for their meal.  We also left them a card inviting them to church.  As we were getting ready to leave they found out it was my wife and I who had paid for them.  They thanked us profusely.  The wearied eyed mom looked into our eyes and asked, “does it get any easier?”  We both started laughing at each other.  We knew exactly how she felt.  We don’t even remember the first year of raising our twin boys, it was all a blur.  We looked at this young couple and said, “Not only does it get easier, it gets a whole lot more fun!”  We talked a little more and invited them to church.

Kindness isn’t in the amount you give or the price you pay it’s all in the attitude in which you walk it out.  If you remember how kind Jesus was to you, it should only stir you up to be kind to those around you.

Over the next four weeks we are going to challenge each of you to GROW in the area of kindness.


 

This week I want you to pay for someone’s meal.


 

It may be at a fancy restaurant or a fast food chain, wherever you buy your food or grab a quick bite — take the time to listen for God to speak to you this week.  Ask Him to direct you to that person or family to whom you should bless.  I promise God will open up amazing opportunities for you to show his kindness!  Remember: As followers of Jesus, kindness is what we do!