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ARLENE PELLICANE

Arlene Pellicane BioArlene is a speaker and author of five books including Growing up Social31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife31 Days to a Happy Husband and 31 Days to a Becoming a Happy Mom.

Arlene wants to help you figure out how to experience more joy.  When she shares about marriage, parenting, health, or personal growth, her goal is not only to inspire. She gives practical steps so you know exactly what to do next.

Arlene has provided expertise as a guest for the Today Show, Focus on the Family, Fox & Friends, Family Life Today, The 700 Club, The Better Show, The Hour of Power, Turning Point with Dr. David Jeremiah, Home Made Simple on TLC and numerous radio programs.

Arlene earned her BA from Biola University and a MA from Regent University.  Before becoming a speaker and author, she served as a features reporter for The 700 Club and associate director for Turning Point Television with David Jeremiah.   

Arlene lives in a happy home in San Diego with her husband James and their kids Ethan, Noelle and Lucy.

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JAY & LINDA ADAMS

J&L 2016 ColoradoJay and Linda Adams have been married 37 years, raised 6 children and have 13 grandchildren.  God, in His grace and mercy, saved Jay & Linda during the Jesus people movement of the early 1970’s.

God has been faithful in walking with them through the fires of life.  Linda lost her first husband to cancer, leaving her a widow at the age of 27 with 3 small children.  Jay, being obedient to God’s call, married Linda and together they had 3 more children.

Jay worked in the pharmaceutical industry for 22 years before starting his own marketing company that assists organizations with donor & business development in the youth sports, commercial printing, and faith-based industry.  Linda was a stay at home mom for 30 years before starting her own custom home design and sewing business.  They have attended Cross Points Church for over 35 years where Jay serves on the Elder board.


REBECCA BLOMKER

Rebecca Blomker speaker at growing up social in Shawnee KansasBecca is a laundry-washer, storyteller, Jesus-lover, who homeschools four wild, beautiful kiddos, blogs every now and then, and is married to her college sweetheart, Jon.

By connecting day-to-day stories to God’s big redemption story, Becca hopes to help you live more authentically and parent more effectively. Becca also hopes to inspire you to own your life story—the heartbreaks and the joys—so you are free to help your children live the story God is writing for them.

Becca earned her BA in English Education from Northwestern University and holds a certificate in Foundations of Biblical Counseling from the Christian Counseling Education Foundation. Currently, she homeschools her football-loving boys—Micah, Josiah, Isaiah—while entertaining her three-year-old girl, Esther, and she teaches writing and literature at Legacy Christian Academy.

Website: pursuedbybeauty.com


PASTOR ANDY BONDURANT

Andy Bondurant of Cross Points Church in Shawnee Kansas - Staff

Andy graduated from Maranatha Academy and then Mid-America Nazarene University with a degree in Christian Education. Upon graduation, Andy worked as the bus ministry pastor at Full Faith City Church before becoming Children’s Pastor at Cross Points Church.

In 2004 Andy took a break from full-time ministry to join his wife and her family in a new business endeavor. He helped build a portrait photography organization of over 400 studios with an annual event of over 600 people.

In the Fall of 2012, Andy returned to CPC to work with the pastoral team as Children’s Pastor (along with the dreaded “other duties as assigned”).

Andy spends his free time coaching and watching soccer, reading, writing and checking his Instagram feed. Andy has been a fan of Sporting KC since they were known as The Wiz.

Andy met and married Kia at Cross Points Church, and together they have four children – Kessa, Sephine, Chilton and Beale.

website: andybondurant.com


DR. RYAN DARROW

Ryan Darrow speaker at Growing Up Social in Shawnee, KansasDr. Ryan Darrow is the lead pastor of Overland Park First Assembly of God, an evangelical Christian church located in the Kansas City metro. He and his high school sweetheart, Krystal, were married in 1997 and have three sons.  Ryan has earned bachelor degrees in Biblical Studies and Business Management, a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy, and a doctorate in Counseling Psychology.

Ryan is an associate professor of psychology at Johnson County Community College, and the recipient of the 2015 Lieberman Teaching Excellence Award for Adjunct Faculty.

With nearly 10,000 clinical hours of therapy, Ryan brings a wealth of knowledge as a marriage and family therapist and child development specialist.

He is an ordained Assemblies of God minister who travels the country speaking at marriage retreats and conferences.


PASTOR PHIL & JAN ELLSWORTH

Phil Ellsworth at Growing Up Social seminar in Shawnee, KansasPastors Phil and Jan Ellsworth founded Grace Christian Fellowship Church in 1980 and have pastored there for 36 years. Yes, they have been around the mountain more than once. He is currently working on his DMin at Oral Roberts University.

Jan Ellsworth has taught in a variety of venues and home-schooled each of their children in the middle school years. She recently retired from teaching at a Christian School and continues to lead a Women’s Bible Study Class at Grace.

Next year they will celebrate their 40th wedding anniversary. They are blessed to have 3 grown (married) children, Heather (and David Lucas), Amanda (and Nathan Johnson), and Jared (and Racheal Ellsworth) who are all serving Jesus in Colorado Springs, Boston, and Jefferson City.

At this conference, it is their desire to pass on some of the insights they have learned in transitioning (independent?) teens into independent adults.


PASTOR DANA & NATHAN HANSON

Hanson BioDana is the Children’s Pastor at Grace Christian Fellowship Church in Shawnee, Kansas. Nathan is the Director of Pharmacy at a local hospital. They moved to the KC area in 2004. Together they served as the College and Career Ministers for seven years before moving to Children’s Ministry.

Dana and Nathan believe that parents are the primary influencers in a child’s life and enjoy partnering with each parent to raise up the next generation for Christ. They have a passion for helping parents and kids navigate through different stages of life.

Dana spends her free time reading, going on adventures with her kids or organizing something. Nathan spends his free time gardening, playing sports with his kids or reading. Nathan and Dana have been married for fourteen years and together have four children- Hannah, Rebekah, Luke and Jacob. They try to live a Purposeful Life as they raise their own kids to be godly leaders with a Christian worldview. Learn more about them at www.ourpurposefullife.com


ROBYN HORSLEY

RobynAfter attending Fort Hays State University, Robyn went to Victory Bible Institute in Tulsa, Oklahoma. While there, she met and married her husband Chris. The two of them stepped into full-time ministry together in 1995. Robyn has primarily ministered in the areas of youth, marriage, and worship.

Robyn’s passion is to see people, young and old, grab a hold of what God has for them and walk in His plans for their life. Together Robyn and Chris have 5 really cool kids: Cheris, Addison, Christian, Drew, and Caleb.

When Robyn isn’t homeschooling, she enjoys spending time with friends, knitting useless creations, eating chocolate, and drinking coffee and more coffee.


TINA JACKSON

Tina Jackson bioTina is a mother of two intelligent and beautiful daughters.  Her oldest daughter was born with multiple disabilities.  This has placed her family on an extraordinary life journey.  Tina and her husband are full-time caregiver to their adult daughter, and will continue to be primary and secondary caregivers for the rest of their lives.

In watching her daughter’s life, Tina has decided to educate herself and support her in reaching her fullest potential.  She has made it her life purpose to support her daughter by helping her become her best “self-advocate.”  Advocating takes courage, strength, and determination.  This has led her to spend the last 16 years encouraging, sharing community resources, and connecting with families.  This work includes experience with the following organizations and roles:

  • Children’s Therapeutic Learning Center (CTLC), Parent Representative Managing Board
  • Missouri Families for Families, Sharing our Strengths, (SOS) Parent Volunteer
  • Kansas City Regional Advisory Council. Committee Member
  • Abundant Life Church, Lee’s Summit, Missouri, Special Needs Co-Coordinator
  • Abundant Life Church, Lee’s Summit, Missouri, Respite Outreach Coordinator
  • Joni and Friends Ministry Greater Kansas City, Church Training Representative
  • One Image Disability Services, Writer and Workshop trainer, Respite Education and Support Tools (REST)

PASTOR DON LEWIS

Donald LewisPastor Don served as senior pastor of Cross Points Church for eleven years and now serves as an associate pastor with an emphasis on fatherhood to the urban communities in the Kansas City metropolitan area.

Pastor Don formerly served the Washington Dulles International Airport as its senior chaplain.  He orchestrated ministry in one of the busiest and most multicultural intersections in the world. Besides his chaplaincy, Pastor Lewis also served as the program director of Youth for Tomorrow, a residential facility for at-risk adolescent males.

His work has been featured in the Washington Times, People Magazine, the Family Research Council magazine and other articles and books.

Pastor Don testified before Congress on behalf of pro-family organizations in Washington D. C., and he also served as regional director for Prison Fellowship’s Mid-Atlantic Neighbors Who Care, a crime victims assistance ministry.

Pastor Don formerly served as a pastor in Oakland, CA., Little Rock, AR., the Washington D.C. metropolitan area.

He and his wife, Hildred, have four adult children and now reside in Lenexa, Kansas.


DIANE MATTIONE

Diane Mattione bioDiane Mattione is the wife to Lou and a mother to two wonderful adult children.  She and her husband reside in Grandview, Missouri.

Bringing up a child on the autism spectrum has grown compassion and love within Diane for families and individuals affected by disability.  Diane believes we have to learn from the ones who run into the arm of a Savior with such abandonment. Their child-like faith should be an inspiration.

In the last 25 years, Diane has advocated for her son and others in similar situations. Her heart passion is to lead all God’c children, no matter their abilities, to the heart of the Father.  Knowing that disability brings many unanswered questions and stress, Diane words to strengthen families by helping them find needed support.  She has also had the pleasure of teaching adults and children about the love of Jesus.  She has carried out that goal by working with the following organizations:

  • Vice President Blue Springs Special Olympic Booster Club
  • New Covenant Ministries, Children’s Ministry Manager
  • Support Group Leader for parents homeschooling special needs children
  • 4-H Leader
  • New Covenant Ministries, Administrative Assistant
  • Special Needs Ministry Director and Resource Manager for Orphan Justice Center
  • Special Needs Buddy Coordinator for Forerunner Christian Fellowship
  • Founder and Teacher, King’s Table, ministry for special needs adults
  • Joni and Friends, Greater Kansas City, Church Training Representative

 

The Importance of Vision

**Where there is no revelation [or prophetic vision], the people cast off restraint… —Proverbs 29:18**

“Where there is no revelation [or prophetic vision]….” Once we lose sight of God, we begin to be reckless. We cast off certain restraints from activities we know are wrong. We set prayer aside as well and cease having God’s vision in the little things of life. We simply begin to act on our own initiative. If we are eating only out of our own hand, and doing things solely on our own initiative without expecting God to come in, we are on a downward path. We have lost the vision.

There is a difference between holding on to a principle and having a vision. A principle does not come from moral inspiration, but a vision does. People who are totally consumed with idealistic principles rarely do anything. A person’s own idea of God and His attributes may actually be used to justify and rationalize his deliberate neglect of his duty. Jonah tried to excuse his disobedience by saying to God, “…I know that You are a gracious and merciful God, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, One who relents from doing harm” (Jonah 4:2). I too may have the right idea of God and His attributes, but that may be the very reason why I do not do my duty. But wherever there is vision, there is also a life of honesty and integrity, because the vision gives me the moral incentive.

Our own idealistic principles may actually lull us into ruin. Examine yourself spiritually to see if you have vision, or only principles.

Is our attitude today an attitude that flows from our vision of God? Are we expecting God to do greater things than He has ever done before? Is there a freshness and a vitality in our spiritual outlook? (Oswald Chambers)

What is the condition of your heart?

**Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. – Proverbs 4:23**

If you continually draw your impulse, your life—the whole of your being from the Holy Spirit, without whom you can do nothing—and if you live in close communion with Christ—there will be no fear of your having a dry heart!

He who lives without prayer—he who lives with little prayer—he who seldom reads the Word—he who seldom looks up to Heaven for a fresh influence from on high—he will be the man whose heart will become dry and barren!

But he who calls in secret on his God—who spends much time in holy retirement—who delights to meditate on the Words of the Most High—whose soul is given up to Christ—who delights in His fullness, rejoices in His all-sufficiency, prays for His second coming and delights in the thought of His glorious advent—such a man, I say, must have an overflowing heart! – (Spurgeon)

From the Inside Out

 

The Spiritually Self-Seeking Church

Now these are the gifts Christ gave to the church: the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, and the pastors and teachers. Their responsibility is to equip God’s people to do his work and build up the church, the body of Christ. This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ. – Ephesians 4:11-13 NLT

**The Spiritually Self-Seeking Church**

Reconciliation means the restoring of the relationship between the entire human race and God, putting it back to what God designed it to be. This is what Jesus Christ did in redemption. The church ceases to be spiritual when it becomes self-seeking, only interested in the development of its own organization. The reconciliation of the human race according to His plan means realizing Him not only in our lives individually, but also in our lives collectively. Jesus Christ sent apostles and teachers for this very purpose— that the corporate Person of Christ and His church, made up of many members, might be brought into being and made known. We are not here to develop a spiritual life of our own, or to enjoy a quiet spiritual retreat. We are here to have the full realization of Jesus Christ, for the purpose of building His body.

Am I building up the body of Christ, or am I only concerned about my own personal development? The essential thing is my personal relationship with Jesus Christ— “…that I may know Him…” (Philippians 3:10). To fulfill God’s perfect design for me requires my total surrender— complete abandonment of myself to Him. Whenever I only want things for myself, the relationship is distorted. And I will suffer great humiliation once I come to acknowledge and understand that I have not really been concerned about realizing Jesus Christ Himself, but only concerned with knowing what He has done for me.

My goal is God Himself, not joy nor peace,
Nor even blessing, but Himself, my God.

Am I measuring my life by this standard or by something less?

July 10, 2016 – Life Hacks “How to make a decision” Sermon Notes

I. Don’t Rush…Wait!

We don’t trust…

We lean on our own understanding…

Prov 19:2 (MSG)

Ignorant zeal is worthless; haste makes waste.

Proverbs 21:5 (MSG)

Careful planning puts you ahead in the long run; hurry and scurry puts you further behind.

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II. When waiting…don’t just wait!

Proverbs 18:13 (NIV)

Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.

 

Research

Proverbs 18:13 (NIV)
Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.

 

Seek Advice

Proverbs 11:4 (NLT)
For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.

 

Be Unified

Proverbs 30:24-28 (NLT)
There are four things on earth that are small but unusually wise:
25 Ants—they aren’t strong,
but they store up food all summer.
26 Hyraxes[e]—they aren’t powerful,
but they make their homes among the rocks.
27 Locusts—they have no king,
but they march in formation.
28 Lizards—they are easy to catch,
but they are found even in kings’ palaces.

 

Act with Integrity

Proverbs 10:9 (NLT)

People with integrity walk safely, but those who follow crooked paths will be exposed.

Hear God’s Voice

Proverbs 3:5-6
We can’t trust, lean or acknowledge unless we first hear Him.

 

How?
30 Steps Toward God 30 Steps Toward God

 

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II.Take a Step

If you trust God, lean on Him, acknowledge Him in everything, He has put you on a path.
Some of us are on the path, but standing still.

Proverbs 6:1-11 (NLT)

My child, if you have put up security for a friend’s debt
or agreed to guarantee the debt of a stranger—
2 if you have trapped yourself by your agreement
and are caught by what you said—
3 follow my advice and save yourself,
for you have placed yourself at your friend’s mercy.
Now swallow your pride;
go and beg to have your name erased.
4 Don’t put it off; do it now!
Don’t rest until you do.
5 Save yourself like a gazelle escaping from a hunter,
like a bird fleeing from a net.
6 Take a lesson from the ants, you lazybones.
Learn from their ways and become wise!
7 Though they have no prince
or governor or ruler to make them work,
8 they labor hard all summer,
gathering food for the winter.
9 But you, lazybones, how long will you sleep? When will you wake up?
10 A little extra sleep, a little more slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest—
11 then poverty will pounce on you like a bandit; scarcity will attack you like an armed robber.

It’s time to act!

The point of the passage is finances and hard work, but it is also general wisdom.

If you know what to do…do it!

Start with one step.

2 Big Questions:

What is your next step?

  • Job: network, resume job board work on the side, make the full-time leap
  • House: arrange finances, get out of debt, repair current home, put house on the market, find a realtor
  • Marriage: go on a date, be intentional, buy a ring, talk with parents, Propose!
  • College: Research colleges, Determine budget, Apply for loans, Type of school?, Apply!

What is your why…
What is your reason to act?

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III. It’s Never Too Late

Proverbs 3:5-6
5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
do not depend on your own understanding.
6 Seek his will in all you do,
and he will show you which path to take.

This verse does not say…if young, if perfect, if wealthy, if you’ve made lots of good decisions…

There Will Be a Future

Future
Our future is secure in Jesus.

The most important decision you can make…becoming a follower of Jesus.

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